Unfiltered: Redefining Intimacy, Masculinity, and the Stories We Hide

What if our deepest human desire wasn’t sex… but connection? And what if fantasy wasn’t something to hide, but a doorway to understanding who we really are? In this week’s episode of One More Thing Before You Go, I sit down with Pepper Kat—former news producer turned adult creator, podcast host, and founder of Design Your Dreamgirl™. Her journey from the structured world of mainstream media to the raw, unfiltered space of adult entertainment is more than provocative—it’s profoundly human.

Through her award‑nominated podcast Spicy Spectrum, Pepper explores male loneliness, sexuality, and identity with unapologetic honesty. She’s not here to shock—she’s here to reveal. To challenge shame. To open the conversations most people avoid.

This isn’t just a conversation about desire.

It’s a reckoning.

A remembering.

A call to embrace what makes us human.

In this episode, Pepper and I unpack:

• Why male loneliness is rising—and what it reveals about modern masculinity
• How fantasy can be a tool for healing, not shame
• What society still gets wrong about sex, connection, and emotional intimacy
• How Design Your Dreamgirl™ is redefining safe space and self‑expression
• Why vulnerability is the new strength—and storytelling is the bridge

A quick note before we begin: This episode of One More Thing Before You Go contains mature themes, including discussions of sexuality and adult content. It may not be suitable for listeners under the age of 18. Listener discretion is advised."